Monday, 10 November 2014

What Does it Feel Like?

What does it feel like
To give birth to girls,
The second rate, the failed,
The beautiful?
All summer long the iron is out  for frills
And through the open door
The garden sings.
"Dear, better luck next time,"
The doctor said.
Can you do nothing in life perfectly?

What is it like to honour and obey,
Put on a wedding dress,
Subject to tears and time in Holloway?
One does not know the shape and size of things
Until one tries them.
Paint brush in hand, I find
Our garden railings make up hearts
Along with all those bars;
So growing daughters do.
Missing the coconut, we threw to win
The pained, the honest and the feminine.

Lamaze Method



Lamaze Method


I remember, I remember the room where you were born,
The whiteness of  it, all white, four white, walls
And clean as the first light of that summer day
When you came.  In England they grab gas and toss
With pain.  Your room was foreign, quiet and white.
I was shaved white to sail each wave of pain.
How I surfed through it
And how the skill of cresting and coming through
Made sport of your arrival.

The Belgian midwife said I did it well,
Such a perfect primitive performance.
I think she was pleased when you, baby,
Came and needed attention.
Even we prizewinners
Were taken aback
At our prowess.

Brussels, 1969.